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legendary.couples

@mrsbrandysalazar @mrlancesalazar
For couples that want a LEGENDARY Relationship while raising kids!
The Miracle Morning for Couples 👇

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What does a legendary relationship mean to you?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
For us, a legendary relationship was feeling madly in love, having fun together, laughing a lot, feeling like we could safely talk about anything, feeling free to be ourselves, and enjoying a great sex life. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Becoming legendary surely wasn't an easy task, but the obsessive dedication of doing the right things quickly yielded promising results. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
We have gone from one extreme of almost divorcing to the other extreme of being madly in love. Our relationship is now on fire. Things are now clicking. And in the moments when things aren’t clicking, we’ve developed the emotional intelligence and harnessed the relationship skills to get it clicking again. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
We have continued to study relationships and success. We read a lot of books (like, a lot) and have become quite obsessed with implementing tools and resources through the lens of relationship improvement. We try anything and everything. We have become relationship guinea pigs. We extensively examine the things that are working for us because we want to both understand the “why” behind them and challenge our beliefs in what makes them work. We wanted to study the science of it all. Is this something that could work only for us, or was this something that could work for other people?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
This approach has helped us tremendously, and we hope it has helped other couples, too.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Now if only we could figure it all out to create "legendary parenting". 🤔😂⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Stay tuned! Time to go into the lab and be guinea pigs here, too! 😉⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
📷: @melissagoodlandphoto

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John Maxwell - when talking simply about business - has provided so many quotes for us that even apply to our marriage.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
This one here rings so true for us. This idea was one of the single-most "a-ha's" we had when we understood the new path we needed to be on to make sure our nearly-failed marriage didn't experience the same complacency it did before.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
When we were disconnected, we constantly tried to re-connect by putting bandaids on the problems. We kept trying to fix the broken things... the weaknesses in our marriage.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
When we decided to lean into each other's strengths - that's when everything changed. This idea helped propel us past the starting line. This idea is what laid the groundwork to cast the vision we desired for our marriage. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
We decided to use the best of what each of us could bring to the relationship to create the magical connection we have today.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Even on the tough days, we feel "equipped" to conquer the trials and tribulations that life and parenthood bring us. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
If you want to know more about how you can do this, too - pick up a copy of the book we co-authored with @halelrod and @honoree - The Miracle Morning for Couples at your nearest online Amazon app or website... or go to our linktree in our bio. There's a link there, too!

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'Tis the season of family photos for the holidays!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
If you're like us, family photo sessions become a great time to exercise patience and teamwork. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I can't remember a single family photoshoot, that didn't start with frustration and anxiety, that didn't end on a high note with us expressing love and laughter.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
But for us, this came with a lot of work and practice in our everyday lives. We understand our individual roles as parents to these crazy girls, as well as what we need to do as a team - making sure we nurture and inspire the other's strengths at home.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
This is all so that we mitigate the stress of those family photos. Learning to let go of expectations, the emotions of our daughters, and anything else we simply can't control in the moment - even though we'd like to.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Despite the smiles you see here - this day started like all of the others. Arguing with the girls, trying to control wardrobe, and convincing them to smile at every little location change.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
But we got through it - and I remember us laughing, jumping, and twirling by the end of it.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Plus, finding a great photographer like @melissagoodlandphoto - who not only captures amazing photographs but also knows how to bring out the best in us - helps a ton.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Do you have any great family photo stories or traditions? We'd love to hear about them!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
📷: @melissagoodlandphoto

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In the pursuit of growth, many of us believe that in order to do so, we need to fix the things that we aren't good at. Additionally, we also believe that our relationships and marriages would be better if our partners merely focused on their weaknesses.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
But real improvement doesn't come from ignoring the things we are already great at. It comes from playing to our strengths.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
When we focus on actually developing those strengths - getting better at THOSE things - we grow much faster than when we try to overcome our weaknesses.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
This doesn't mean that we simply just keep doing the things we have talent in - that we just do more of the same. It means that we continuously work to improve those talents.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
This is especially important in our marriages. Your relationship will have a greater chance to flourish and thrive when the two of you bring the best of yourselves to the marriage. When the two of you have identified those talents and combine those forces to move your partnership forward.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
You are a team - and each player has their role. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Help each other to harness what's best in each of you. Collaborate, design, plan, and take action. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Then high-five and celebrate the victory that each of you had a stake in together.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
This week's video was on how to establish ROLES in your marriage. Back up a post and check it out!

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Whenever possible, we touch while we communicate and have conversations - no matter if the chat is lighthearted or challenging.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
This connection allows us to feel into the love for each other. It expresses intimacy for each other even in moments where we might not feel like even being near one another.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
It's a visual and tactical queue that we care what the other is saying, even if we might disagree.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Touch is such a huge part of how we communicate.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Give it a try. The next time you turn toward each other to talk, grab your partner's hand. Look into each other's eyes.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
It can help create connection where it might otherwise be lacking - and spark love in even the most challenging and emotional conversations.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
📷: @melissagoodlandphoto

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legendary.couples

@mrsbrandysalazar @mrlancesalazar
For couples that want a LEGENDARY Relationship while raising kids!
The Miracle Morning for Couples 👇

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What does a legendary relationship mean to you?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
For us, a legendary relationship was feeling madly in love, having fun together, laughing a lot, feeling like we could safely talk about anything, feeling free to be ourselves, and enjoying a great sex life. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Becoming legendary surely wasn't an easy task, but the obsessive dedication of doing the right things quickly yielded promising results. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
We have gone from one extreme of almost divorcing to the other extreme of being madly in love. Our relationship is now on fire. Things are now clicking. And in the moments when things aren’t clicking, we’ve developed the emotional intelligence and harnessed the relationship skills to get it clicking again. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
We have continued to study relationships and success. We read a lot of books (like, a lot) and have become quite obsessed with implementing tools and resources through the lens of relationship improvement. We try anything and everything. We have become relationship guinea pigs. We extensively examine the things that are working for us because we want to both understand the “why” behind them and challenge our beliefs in what makes them work. We wanted to study the science of it all. Is this something that could work only for us, or was this something that could work for other people?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
This approach has helped us tremendously, and we hope it has helped other couples, too.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Now if only we could figure it all out to create "legendary parenting". 🤔😂⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Stay tuned! Time to go into the lab and be guinea pigs here, too! 😉⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
📷: @melissagoodlandphoto

Instagram post 2190774682966082343_4265317404

John Maxwell - when talking simply about business - has provided so many quotes for us that even apply to our marriage.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
This one here rings so true for us. This idea was one of the single-most "a-ha's" we had when we understood the new path we needed to be on to make sure our nearly-failed marriage didn't experience the same complacency it did before.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
When we were disconnected, we constantly tried to re-connect by putting bandaids on the problems. We kept trying to fix the broken things... the weaknesses in our marriage.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
When we decided to lean into each other's strengths - that's when everything changed. This idea helped propel us past the starting line. This idea is what laid the groundwork to cast the vision we desired for our marriage. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
We decided to use the best of what each of us could bring to the relationship to create the magical connection we have today.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Even on the tough days, we feel "equipped" to conquer the trials and tribulations that life and parenthood bring us. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
If you want to know more about how you can do this, too - pick up a copy of the book we co-authored with @halelrod and @honoree - The Miracle Morning for Couples at your nearest online Amazon app or website... or go to our linktree in our bio. There's a link there, too!

Instagram post 2190049861181621325_4265317404

'Tis the season of family photos for the holidays!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
If you're like us, family photo sessions become a great time to exercise patience and teamwork. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I can't remember a single family photoshoot, that didn't start with frustration and anxiety, that didn't end on a high note with us expressing love and laughter.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
But for us, this came with a lot of work and practice in our everyday lives. We understand our individual roles as parents to these crazy girls, as well as what we need to do as a team - making sure we nurture and inspire the other's strengths at home.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
This is all so that we mitigate the stress of those family photos. Learning to let go of expectations, the emotions of our daughters, and anything else we simply can't control in the moment - even though we'd like to.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Despite the smiles you see here - this day started like all of the others. Arguing with the girls, trying to control wardrobe, and convincing them to smile at every little location change.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
But we got through it - and I remember us laughing, jumping, and twirling by the end of it.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Plus, finding a great photographer like @melissagoodlandphoto - who not only captures amazing photographs but also knows how to bring out the best in us - helps a ton.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Do you have any great family photo stories or traditions? We'd love to hear about them!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
📷: @melissagoodlandphoto

Instagram post 2182213245885443378_4265317404

In the pursuit of growth, many of us believe that in order to do so, we need to fix the things that we aren't good at. Additionally, we also believe that our relationships and marriages would be better if our partners merely focused on their weaknesses.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
But real improvement doesn't come from ignoring the things we are already great at. It comes from playing to our strengths.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
When we focus on actually developing those strengths - getting better at THOSE things - we grow much faster than when we try to overcome our weaknesses.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
This doesn't mean that we simply just keep doing the things we have talent in - that we just do more of the same. It means that we continuously work to improve those talents.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
This is especially important in our marriages. Your relationship will have a greater chance to flourish and thrive when the two of you bring the best of yourselves to the marriage. When the two of you have identified those talents and combine those forces to move your partnership forward.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
You are a team - and each player has their role. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Help each other to harness what's best in each of you. Collaborate, design, plan, and take action. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Then high-five and celebrate the victory that each of you had a stake in together.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
This week's video was on how to establish ROLES in your marriage. Back up a post and check it out!

Instagram post 2177721269143595148_4265317404

Whenever possible, we touch while we communicate and have conversations - no matter if the chat is lighthearted or challenging.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
This connection allows us to feel into the love for each other. It expresses intimacy for each other even in moments where we might not feel like even being near one another.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
It's a visual and tactical queue that we care what the other is saying, even if we might disagree.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Touch is such a huge part of how we communicate.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Give it a try. The next time you turn toward each other to talk, grab your partner's hand. Look into each other's eyes.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
It can help create connection where it might otherwise be lacking - and spark love in even the most challenging and emotional conversations.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
-⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
📷: @melissagoodlandphoto

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